The Yoga off The Mat
And why women feeling a bit forced into entrepreneurship to practice some!
Well, here is your first official weekly love note from me. I wanted to wait until June 4th for the official start of this weekly love note because Mercury Retrograde was over. We are still going to be in some transitional shadow until the 6th or so but because Mercury Retro is such a powerful time for self-discovery out of reflection on others, I figured you might have had an emotional moment or two these past few weeks and it would be a good time for you to read this and reply letting me know what new problems popped up or even better, what solutions did you come up with?
Would you want to contribute to this newsletter and share ideas with me?
First off, I would love to hear why you signed up. I would love the feedback. I am going to ask a lot as I am going to be regularly surveyed on how to open up this weekly conversation with you, the founders, and I have to be honest, so far I am bombing. Are you just being nice or do you enjoy getting some value from me? I mean thank you for being nice but…
I only have a 7.14% conversion from exposure to my lead in so I am really hoping to co-create this and will need feedback on how to change that. I want to get to 30% or better.
What do you want me to be in your world?
I ask because isn’t personal gain really why we pursue any relationship? Now that may involve a lot of social gains too. In fact, studies show that women enter into relationships and business owners with the intention to do just that 70% of the time compared to me but what do we get out of it? The more spiritual and emotional development you do, the more that selfishness becomes aligned with selflessness but my intention here is to give you value weekly on how to remain in a healthy zone of this. To be fully transparent, I get a lot of joy from helping women see their max potential, and personally would like to share my life experiences to save another woman the pain of my growing pains. My story is one of safety, sex, power, and relationship making and how that impacted my assets and life lessons over the years.
Even though I used to teach that the quickest way to personal empowerment is through creating a career you crave, I now see, after my divorce that the quickest route for that is actually a much smarter seeded entrepreneurship. The roots of which need to grow inside us and not just be used for growing skills for being in business for yourself. Entrepreneurship is a sacred path all on its own for certain people, especially those in the business of healing or helping an oppressed group or sector of society. It is something beyond being a skilled therapist or coach or counselor on its own. For a Curvy Hustler, becoming a successful entrepreneur really becomes a calling because you begin to see all the bigger picture possibilities that your success provides. It is outside your personal family or career frustrations.
So, would you like me to keep up with little tips like the conversion rates above?
What time of day would you like to read this?
Are you more into learning good ways to show up and grow up as a woman in business for herself?
Are you interested in one day growing into a legacy that you pass down into the family story in some way or are you just looking to make a paycheck doing something you love?
Reply now and let me know.
I planned to share stories with you here that connect the dots on relationships and business building. I will also share the evolving wisdom I am privy to now in both those points that I am not going to on social media because I no longer want to. I find my path requires that I be much more protective of my power and energy right now. I learned the hard lesson that not everyone that is watching you wants your success and I only want the depth of psychic development I teach for personal development with those ready for the responsibility of holding that power. I want my inner circle full of those that want that for me too. I also learned that a group of women can be early on a quest towards success but already more focused on seeding themselves in smart investments than the fear of losing money. Yeah, it is scary. That is why you need a circle to admit it and you don’t need to be forced forward by being broken open or being broke. You already likely did that. You need to be given the gold to close the wounds and make the beauty through excellence regardless of your present circumstance. It is a mindset, a curvy mindset, and not a lack of opportunity that gets us off track.Sometimes the curve is exactly what we need and sometimes it delays where we are ultimately going but either way, the sooner I learned to accept my attitude is 100% my responsibility and did not then jump on the positivity bandwagon, I continued to go around the same lessons.
It is the healthy feminine spirit that makes the difference in seeing that. It is the heart of compassion in failure by seeing that every curve is a decision and lesson learned, period. Every decision is a reflection of our relationship with all our pieces and how close we are to seeing ourselves as a whole and one. It doesn’t need some outside order. It requires an inner engineered one. It does need to be forced into that from the outside sometimes so you need to understand how to surrender to a greater knowing authority sometimes along the way. I just feel there needs to be a more feminine feeling community that gets all the degrees of it. Curvy Hustlers do.
We will not negate our masculine side. If anything, we will love to own it better. To do the book writing and speaking up or keynote-inspired social media shares looking physically strong and confident and saying we have every right to take up space in a different way. When we are humanistic, we are simply whole. Curvy Hustlers don’t see it as woo-woo. It is valuable when we ask you to think instead of just reacting all primal.
I have to be honest, in the end, I do want a cross-market of confident, passionate, ambitious, humanistic skilled men and confident, passionate, ambitious, humanistic skilled women and nonbinary people calling themselves Curvy Hustlers but, that is going to take some time.
For now, let’s meet weekly for a hug. Honesty, Understanding, and some spiritual Grounding. I want to offer you reading time for that. Reply back and fill me in on why you are personally here. How much foundational business talk and how much inner work are you looking for? What ratio is best for you.
Take advantage of the offers above to be a relevant part of this community. The numbers are still small enough for me to directly reply to every reply I get. I love the love notes like the one below but I really value the impact my loving critics offer too.
What would mean the world to you if I could create it in a weekly message?