We lose thousands of leaders who make themselves small or stop playing the game of life at the level of excellence they can merely because we are burnt out by the BS in process and positioning.
The latest move by The Food Network to reposition self-branded, lifestyle vegan chef, Tabitha Brown of 2020 Tik Tok fame, demonstrates the intersection of power, person, process, and entrepreneurial spirit. Many people of marginalized sectors, were never properly taught how to play this game of life in our body, mind, and energetic source-connected soul alignment as our purpose.
And It took me a long time to accept that I was one of them, living life from the collar bone up, accepting the level of love and circles I felt I deserved, and basically hiding from my God-given calling after praying for years to hear one.
Now that I know how to heal the inner game energy leaks instead of hiding them,
How to communicate the high value of serving the collective through our mothering codes,
How to incorporate a commitment to love instead of getting paralyzed by my fears
And am finally evolving my human relationships into mindfully owning, sharing, and surrendering leadership——
I want to share its power of it.
Hence the evolution of The Curvy Hustle Society and I am personally grateful to be on this evolutionary womanhood heroic journey. So many of us have made the leap with an active intention, not just the theory, to show up more as a source of something significant from within instead of a product of the value given to us from the outside.
This is not going to be easy…Stop looking for FOMO and YOLO to mingle.
But this walk is not an easy one.
You will live many lives, not just one. You will also need to decide to miss out, fearlessly. You are choosing to tap out of the numbing and self-limiting beliefs, and face moments of denial. On this path to sacred success we are freer, wealthier, more educated, and socialized into more equal opportunities to thrive than ever before but there are still encoded gaps in leadership development and social norms of relationships. On top of this, there are patches of isolation and self-doubt that are fought within the psyche, heart, and body which are inherent in spiritual development and scream spiritual warfare that paralyzes people way before they give the path a chance but…
Those are the curves of authenticity that everyone says they want but so few actually have the courage to be. These are the pivots that forced me to get courageously off the line I was on to someone else’s destiny.
That is the kind of lived-in stuff that will move you, as it moved me from being a straightforward therapeutic clinician into the clear conviction of becoming the creator of a mind-over-body clinic to now showing over 250 supportive and visionary women how to lead themselves through the storms of navigating the wilderness between an established traditional health career and owning her health, wealth and impact.
I so enjoy watching an accomplished woman, with a social medicine, step into her economic contribution, service impact, and connections with authenticity.
It can be as simple as learning how to make the best use of our time just as Tabitha Brown did during the pandemic.
Can you feel her when she says in the article …” I don’t understand why no one believes me” in reference to her being asked to betray her sense of self when expected to for other people’s comfort with who they are once again?
Some won’t believe the authenticity.
Those that don’t like the mirrors will project their fears onto you instead of accepting the self-reflection. That is why you need a why that is bigger than your fears of abandonment because it is isolating but you need the resiliency to navigate the wilderness that isn’t forever. It will be more of a repositioning. Those that are meant to stay will and those that need to go away to set you free to move well and those that are meant to return will when they do the work also be at a comparative frequency.
Let them do the work to rise. Don’t compromise and remain slower, and smaller, without understanding what you are doing.
I walked away from a marriage, and before that, a certain career trajectory, and amongst the many years of resisting to bend, I broke down a lot.
In doing so I leaked energy that compromised my mental health, emotional development, financial security, and social stability and made me retreat or let go of earned leverage at pivotal inflection points myself.
But the difference between Tabitha and I was this…I was ignorant of my potential. I did not have the inner or core support and understand the other energy games other people were better at playing. I had a self-imposed limit to the height of my sunflower. I was allowed to flourish but I limited the impact of my own blossoming.
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The Secret to Making Courageous Decisions at the Curves
Over the past few years, I took being a spiritual ninja to the next level. I sourced my own Ashram to work on a new identity and definition of family.
Looking back it was a decade-long process. In 2009 I entered a new level of studying myself through spiritual intimacy. By 2013 I wanted to find some other spiritual ninjas. By 2016 I called myself out on my Bullcrap a lot and sought mentors that would force it up a notch.
And by the end of Fall 2019, I grew into the strongest woman I know by accepting surrender.
Yup—- and over the past three years since, I discovered the 180 opposite of what we are all taught was the purpose of the loss around it!
But it was not an easy journey. It was hard as heck and I am still evolving into my next calling. That is another secret they can not tell us, this is an eternal evolution with a destination back home to ourselves, not to some big expansive pillage of the Earth for all the net worth I can acquire as a way to qualify our self-worth.
On this path, you jump into the understanding that all people are born worthy and need to become willing to surrender while they live their life. Life is curvy, not meant to be lived straight and rigid. Life is now. Not in my past or in some future point.
See, the secret is that you can compete all you want. You can match and excel at the outer game but unless someone is willing to show you their playbook and cards, aka SURRENDER, you can’t learn the inner game or other game by watching others or reading the theories in a book.
Visionary, loving women need a safe place, a group of peers that could get what we are doing and hold us accountable and force us to get out of our heads, remain in our heart, body, and world to practice!!! We need to be pulled into our controller at times and set the boundaries and the standards.
And when I found one, I saw they knew I was worthy. There was no need to prove myself. They shared real secrets to success and helped me craft my framework to create it for others.
Therefore….
When in a circle of women who get this, stay and await your personal evolution patiently. Don’t run. Stand up in the drift and let yourself grow some roots without attachment to the process. Trust it is all for you not against you. It is through you.
Do the inner work to heal the sisterhood, eliminate victimization, and re-embrace our evolving and hurting brothers too. When we do so, the heavens sing.
Accept there is a certain level of unknown but be open to being discovered through your own body wisdom and intelligence, in partnerships with spiritual connection, embrace fearless self-expression and be receptive and disciplined enough to actually implement ancient proven tools. We get to be in the exact GPS guidance to the outcomes we seek.
The Journey Back Home is Commencing Now
The journey back home to our secret garden of Eden will repackage us at any given moment in alignment to an encoded feminine and masculine powered style flex as needed for the ride. Make a point to learn how to style flex, lead from behind sometimes, and dance amongst the masses to learn what they need.
In that power to connect, you have nothing but a community of alchemists co-creating pure gold.
I can now use the wisdom from obtaining any of my degrees and the wisdom of my life experiences outside of academia and just becoming me. I really don’t have a limit on what I can do with it.
Belly Guru, my first company and brand was a personal mission to heal my own mother and child's wounds around moving from maiden to mothering.
Mind-Body Enterprises, my new company is my evolution of me at an even bigger contribution level. It is about never losing the maiden, the mother, and embracing the power of the feminine maven stepping over the threshold and transforming into my full glory
It is a non-religious, but very spiritual ministry to fill in the leadership gaps I see. A process for the person and their purpose to meet with a process we love unconditionally.
I am on a mission to empower the feminine force itself through the mind, body, soul, and service of every woman I train and coach.
The medicine woman I am speaking of and the brave medicine men that will surrender too are already here planting the seeds our grandchildren will be reaping. It is about time there is a safe space for us to evolve and then get holistic support to make that mark we have lived a life for in society.
This pandemic, and the subsequent crash of just about everything, is a calling upon us to fulfill the realization of full womanhood.
We can witness the emergence of these people who will rise from all walks of life with a force that is uncommon for now.
In time, they will be the leader crew that no one will be forgetting.
I smile every time I see a medicine woman such as Tabitha or me or any one of my mindset clients, showing up visibly free. Whether they are feeling “Too much” or “Not enough” anyone choosing to be the woman they need to be to do what social healing they intended to do.
There are no compromises in The Curvy Hustle Society —-
Just a bunch of decisions to be seen and learning curves to be lived through.
My audiences, group members, or clients will be nourished and loved with real people models of passionate integrity that birth a lot of things.
I am a passionate, free, loving woman that loves being in the company of another one.
I would love to marry a man that can handle that role I have and join me but until then…
I am gathering my sister and brother friends that are in this with me for the most amazing road trip of our lives over the next decade and more.
xoxo- Dr. Lisa
PS: Comment “Take me with you” and reply with your vision of how you fit in if you had the patience and enrolled on the vision enough to read this far.
If you did, I already know I should be picking you up along the way.